Couple
Couples Types

Bullet   What is your couple type?

Step by step, you create your life with your loved partner. Although every relationship is unique, all fit one of the main types: Nest, Castle, Partner, Association, and Side by Side.

These five conjugal styles which you are going to discover in this website were defined by a team of sociologists at the University of Geneva, Switzerland. They result from a study of 1,500 married and unmarried couples of any age, living together for at least a year. The first conclusions of the study showed that never has the landscape of relationships been so varied; never spouses had such freedom of creation!:

From this diversity, we can extract five trends. One of these trends describes your relationship. The others may remind you of your friends, your parents, or your neighbors.
Bullet   What can you do with these types?

You can take a fresh look at your relationship. What are your values? What are the roles and spheres of influence of you and your partner? How do you manage conflicts? You will see that your marital bond is much broader than exceeds your romantic bond.

The collective imagination is imprinted by an idea of “love-destiny”: which assumes that our romantic partners are pre-determined. In reality, relationships are not so straightforward.
Bullet   Being in a relationship is like building a beautiful home

We have to work on our relationship. It is like a magnificent building with several floors. Maintaining a relationship involves compromises and stakes: such as the distribution of power, resources and influence within the relationship.

Based on research made by Swiss and American sociologists, we have worked on the five different types of couples.
Bullet   How can we define the different types?

Four dimensions are used to calibrate the different types:

Borders

Each relationship has its borders. They define how the partners share individual resources (time, money, ideas, and feelings). They also describe how the partners decide to interact with their external environment
bullet_1   You spend most of your evenings with your partner
bullet_1   Concerning music, books or films, you and your partner have very close tastes
bullet_1   You go out or see friends several times a week
bullet_1   You often prefer to stay at home with your family
Goals

The priority given to objectives, such as tenderness, communication, economic success, social integration or psychological comfort can explain how the goals of the relationship are organized.
bullet_1   Your relationship is a place of stability
bullet_1   Your relationship is a place of tenderness
bullet_1   Your relationship is a place of support for my professional life
bullet_1   Your relationship is a place of discussion and openness towards the world
Roles

Instrumental roles (gendered division of household labour and professional activities) and the relational roles (providing information, goals selection, and support) define the different degrees of gendering.
bullet_1   You are more or less responsible for paperwork (taxes, invoices, accounts).
bullet_1   You are more or less responsible for laundry and cleaning.
bullet_1   You take initiatives and bring in most ideas.
bullet_1   You offer most support, encourage or comfort others.
Behavior

This dimension captures the differential investment of men and women in the domestic sphere, which is not only a question of time of presence, but is also connected with the sacrifices that one can or is willing to make for it. Couples follow a fixed set of norms concerning family timetables and specific habits.
bullet_1   You invite or visit your relatives and your friends on precise days and at precise hours.
bullet_1   You decide the purchase of new furniture’s.
bullet_1   You choose the activities of the weekends.
bullet_1   You do not like to change your family habits.
The five different Types of Couples :